A theory of the valenced other: The intersection of the looking-glass-self and social penetration
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Wayne E. Hensley
Virginia Polytechnic and State University
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- Keywords:
- valenced other, looking-glass-self, social penetration
- Abstract
- This paper considers the relationships between the looking-glass-self (Cooley, 1902) and social penetration (Altman & Taylor, 1973). This theoretical intersection yields a conceptual other whose reflected image of us is both affect and cognition: the valanced other. This theoretical analysis produces a curvilinear relationship which is hypothesised to exist between image accuracy and the penetration level of the reference person. The most accurate images are, in descending order: casual acquaintance, friend, intimate and stranger. The distortion in the intimate's image is due to their emotional involvement rendering them blind to otherwise obvious information. This paper argues that neither the looking-glass-self nor social penetration is complete alone. This resultant unified system gives rise to the valenced other concept.
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- 1996-08-01
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- Volume 24, 1996, Issue 3
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